a problem entirely fabricated by YT
I agree with your basic point, tho to be fair, server costs are a thing, so it's more like a problem fabricated by... capitalism? the commercialization of the internet? The centralization of resources? I guess it depends on what you think the long-term solution is.
brand recognition. IOW, when you are at the grocery store, you think of Coke in general rather than any specific ads.
Agreed. More specifically, I think brand association plays a part. Even if you never drink cola of any type, the ads make you think "Coke is the kind of drink for people who (whatever)". Then when you see your friend drinking one you say "Oh you drink coke? I guess you're the kind of person who (whatever the ad campaign says)." It's really insiduous.
I will sit on my floor with nothing, for hours, before i watch ads.

Beat me to it. I was gonna be like https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Adventure_of_the_guy_called_Alex_who_Turned_an_Island_into_a_Peninsula
Hey, fam! Check out !fedigrow@lemmy.zip if you haven't already, we talk about this kinda thing a lot there. About a week ago I wrote down some thoughts on how to grow a community so that you're not the only poster, it's not exactly what you're asking, but maybe it'll be helpful:
::: spoiler click here for a bunch of ideas on what to do if you're the only poster on a community
First, find regular events to post about. For example on !bmoviebonanza@lemmy.world I post about the weekly Monsterdon watch party. On !juggalos@lemmy.world, philipontacos posts about the (mostly) weekly JCW and Shaggy Show posts on youtube. (edit: similarly, you can use a scheduler to make regular posts ahead of time, on piefed or the lemmy scheduler. For example I looked up a bunch of Tintin panels and picked out my favorites, and scheduled a weekly post on !eurographicnovels@piefed.social with a different panel every Tuesday. When I see it posted, I make a comment saying why it was one of my favorites.)
Second, give people resources they can use. For example on !sumo@lemmy.world I periodically post a bunch of links that people can use to follow the bi-monthly tournaments. This resulted in more engagement than when I just posted a lot of content myself.
Third, just ask people to post. If anyone has commented on your posts, reply to them (or send a DM) suggesting that they make posts of their own. On !gothindustrial@lemmy.world I had to ask like 10+ people in this way, but we finally got a nice community of 3-4 regular posters and several other occasionals.
Fourth, think about the kinds of posts that will attract discussion. This will vary by community. Simple links to songs or videos rarely attract much discussion. Articles may attract more, tho you run the risk of “ragebait” or “clickbait”. Look through !asklemmy@lemmy.world to get a sense of what questions will attract discussion, and think about how this can be adapted to your community. Memes can get a lot of upvotes, but the amount of discussion they inspire depends on the type of meme.
Fifth, think about “community events” to get people involved. On !superbowl@lemmy.world, there's an annual “Owl of the Year” tournament where people vote for their favorite owl.
Sixth, advertise periodically, on !newcommunities@lemmy.world, by cross-posting, by mentioning your community elsewhere (when approriate), by getting it listed in the sidebar of related communities, etc.
Finally, only do things here that are fun. That’s just my personal rule. Every once in a while I think I should make regular discussion-provoking “question” posts on !gothindustrial@lemmy.world, but I just don’t have it in me. So I only make that kind of post when I think I have a good question that I really wanna see what people answer. (edit: on the other hand, I spent several hours making a “Who is your Favorite Dracula?” meme on !vampires@lemmy.zip, because it was fun.)
Awrite, that’s just a couple things I thought of, hope it’s helpful to someone.
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Funny you should ask that, I was just trawling around looking for memes to post on !gothindustrial@lemmy.world and came across this classic image:

It's from like 2007 but still got a lot of truth. See here for a breakdown of the various "stereotypes" of goth types by the same artist, many of which do not involve monochrome: https://www.deviantart.com/trellia/gallery/25271332/goth-stereo-types
If you check out pics from last summer's Wave Gotik Treffen, you'll notice that yeah, black is the baseline but it's not exclusive: https://piefed.social/post/883617
As for your question "why?" idk but wikipedia says:
The anchor that holds all elements of dark culture together can be viewed as the color black with all its associated symbolism. It is seen as an expression of seriousness, darkness and mysticism, but also of hopelessness and emptiness, melancholy, as well as its association with mourning and death.[2][6]
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_culture
But a lot of tradgoths will say you don't have to dress or act any certain way to be "goth", you just gotta enjoy the music. idk tho, I'm more into industrial!
"goth" means different things to different people. sorry, I'd write more but I'm comin down with a cold or something.
Just trying to understand how the world looks like for a goth.
ok how about this:

You might be hard pressed to find any cybergoths in the wild,
There are still meetups at festivals like Amphi and WGT, see here for various links: https://piefed.social/search?q=cybergoths+Amphi&community=1277&language=0&search_for=posts
tho yeah, I don't think people dress cybergoth on the daily unless they're an influencer or something.
heavily concentrated around major cities
Right, but when a goth band wants to make a video on the cheap, what do they do? Take a camera out into the forest!
Y'all need to meet more people through SUMO
source: !sumo@lemmy.world


