2026-08-05 23:47 UTC
I think a permanent, monogamous D/s dynamic with the right person would be such a dream. But I can’t see how that person would be dominant while not being domineering, which is all I’ve ever known.
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@Sharksonaplane@mastodon.sandwich.net 2026-08-06 04:09
@Damselfly@blackqueer.life It can happen and I hope you find it for yourself! 💛
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@Damselfly@blackqueer.life 2026-08-06 05:35
I just feel like a permanent, monogamous D/s dynamic would just hit so many spots in me. My submissive spot: A safe place to surrender to vulnerability and release myself. My self-determined spot: A person to support my own “yes“ rather than telling me “no.” My autistic spot: clearly communicated expectations with clearly defined success criteria My traumatized spot: constant and consistent engagement, praise, and encouragement. My manic pixie playful spot: Fun engagement through my natural playfulness and slight brattiness with a constant inside joke.