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@BallShapedMan@lemmy.world

2026-10-29 21:52 UTC

What did/does Sir Patrick Stuart mean to you? He means more to me than I thought. I was raised in an abusive home, and Star Trek TNG was one of my few escapes. I remember wanting to be like Captain Picard when I grew up. Confident, kind, direct, capable, and loving. I don’t know if I’m there yet. But I’m trying. I already miss you. So very much.

Replies (25)

  • @mo_lave@reddthat.com 2026-10-29 21:57

    His character as Picard is one of the clearest role models of leadership, something I want to aspire to.

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  • @eddanja@lemmy.world 2026-10-29 22:08

    There’s lots but the triple take story is for some reason at the forefront.

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  • @inlandempire@jlai.lu 2026-10-29 22:09

    Not much sadly, I was more of a Stargate and Star Wars watcher, but the few non acting vids i saw of him he looked really nice, down to earth, and just very cool in general

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  • Acting

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  • @DagwoodIII@piefed.social 2026-10-29 22:20

    [off topic] I once heard Jean Claude Van Damme say that he was always tried to be kind and respectful to fans, no matter how tired or annoyed he was, because there were people who’d been looking up to him all their lives. There are a lot of people who have looked up to Picard for all their lives.

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  • He was Picard and even more than Picard.

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  • @Naich@piefed.world 2026-10-29 22:37

    I don’t know if you knew, but Patrick Stewart was also raised in an abusive home, and used acting as a way of escaping. I’ll always remember the scene from Extras with Ricky Gervais. Sure, he was an amazing actor, but it showed how effortlessly he could turn his hand to sublime comedy.

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  • @TeaEarlGreyHot@lemmy.world 2026-10-29 22:39

    Patrick Stuart as Picard gave me some of my favourite moments in all of media. This out of place, British/French/Space man, speaking softly and at length about morality and the human experience. Showing us that diplomacy is about conversation, rather than yelling, posturing and finger pointing. He still continues to give me hope that Humanity can eventually surpass the greed, hate and fear that hold us all down. Hopefully, we can see a glimpse of it in our lifetime. If you haven’t, give Star Trek, especially TNG a go. It’s messages are still relevant today… Just don’t start with season 1. “Measure of a Man” was what made me fall in love with Star Trek and Picard as a character. In fact, I’m going to watch it right now.

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  • @davel@lemmy.ml 2026-10-29 22:49

    Before he was a captain, he was a Paul Atreides’ mentor. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gurney_Halleck

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  • Oh no, this is how I find out? 😢

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  • @Maeve@kbin.earth 2026-10-29 23:32

    If your online persona is indicative of your real life persona, then you've pretty much nailed his screen persona. 🤪 You seem kind, strong (you made it through a bad burn, with the love, support and nursing of a wonderful wife!), you keep pursuing your hobbies and dreams, and rescue your damsel when she's distressed. That may not be larger than life, but it is real life, and that's better. When the masks melt away, or if they're lovely masks, become the face. TNG was after I moved out, but I really liked it a lot. I liked Captain Picard, but felt more drawn to Data, as he developed and worked through complicated human issues. In the original show, I was drawn to Mr. Spock, because he represented emotional equilibrium that was never present in my nuclear family. I guess Troi was closest to my heart, because it was my grams that loved, nurtured, soothed, accepted. When they buried her, they buried the best part of my heart.

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  • I just started to get into Star Trek in 2024, right after our union won recognition, because a coworker recommended that I watch Bar Association. Needless to say I fell in love with the franchise, and started watching the other shows. In December of 2024 I was illegally fired, allegedly for “professional misconduct”. Around the same time, I started to watch TNG. The show prevented me from having a mental health crisis much sooner than it would have otherwise occurred, and helped me recover afterwards. Sir Patrick Stewart was the light of wisdom for my ideals during this period. He didn’t necessarily save my life, but he saved my soul. In August, I lost my ULP. A song in TNG echoed in my head then as it does now: “Land of Song!” said the warrior bard, “Tho’ all the world betrays thee, One sword at least, thy rights shall guard, One faithful harp shall praise thee!”

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  • Coming home every day after being bullied at school and watching TNG is probably a major contribution to keeping my sanity when I was young. I am very sad. Patrick Stewart will be missed.

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  • @zdhzm2pgp@lemmy.ml 2026-10-30 00:56

    ☭ From The Fall of Eagles ☭

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  • Nothing

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  • Nothing really. I grew up with always knowing who he was, even if I didn’t watch Star Trek. He was a great Professor X. He just seemed like a cool, nice dude. I enjoyed just hearing him talk. RIP.

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  • @Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 2026-10-30 02:03

    Confident, kind, direct, capable, and loving. I don’t know if I’m there yet. But I’m trying. Just by saying that you want to be like that, already makes you the best version of yourself right now. As to your question: a lot…the character(s), not the person behind it (I didn’t knew him personally). Like all characters in all trek. I’m a an evil capitalist hellhole-world, this stupid silly utopia where people exist to better themselves is still a refreshing and creative take. A dream how humanity COULD be but never won’t be.

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  • @CannonFodder@lemmy.world 2026-10-30 02:22

    I used to go to sleep listening to the furnace and pretending it was the hum of the Enterprise with Patrick Stewart at the helm. I was safe because he was there. I’m in my fifties now and still that sometimes helps me get to sleep. His passing is like a gut punch. My stomach is in a knot and my eyes are all welled up. RIP Patrick - you will be missed.

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  • Exploration. Morality. Intelligence. Dignity. Honor. Confidence. Empathy. Curiosity. Dedication. In a lot of very real ways, I realize that I have, for a long time, considered Stewart’s portrayal of Picard to essentially be the reference standard of what outstanding leadership can and should be. Also, as to Stewart himself: I’ve always thought he was, at his core, a genuinely good human. Fuck, man, I haven’t felt this heartbroken about a celebrity death since Anthony Bourdain.

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  • @eestileib@sh.itjust.works 2026-10-30 04:00

    He was fantastic as KARLA in the Alec Guinness George Smiley miniseries.

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  • @UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 2026-10-30 04:16

    One of the few good memories growing up was watching TNG reruns.

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  • @xavier666@lemmy.umucat.day 2026-10-30 04:50

    One line from XMen means a lot to me. “Just because someone stumbles and loses their way, it doesn’t mean they’re lost forever. Sometimes, we all need a little help.”

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  • @MidsizedSedan@lemmy.world 2026-10-30 08:01

    One of my first super hero movies I watched was X-men 2. (Classmate gave me a illegal recording of that and Transformers.) I used to complain that super hero fatigue was real, Ive been watching them since age ~7 , and now I’m 27. I’ve seen enough super heroes. But now I will buy a ticket to doomsday to see Stewart one last time

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  • @xtools@programming.dev 2026-10-30 09:12

    Picard thought me more about morals and ethics than any of my teachers. RIP buddy

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  • @SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-10-30 09:13

    He represents a central figure in media mythology that everybody knows stands for integrity, earnestly trying to do what you think is right, and hope for a better future. Because if we can dream of making it to the stars, people will keep dreaming of making it to the stars. Star Trek is culturally centralized as a pillar of hope and wonder that everybody can reference. If you know somebody likes Star Trek, you can basically know that they’re a good person. And Patrick Stewart is the figurehead and father figure we all know, strive to be, and hold as the gold standard of. His character’s words were written by writers, sure. But, CULTURALLY, we all collectively know that he represents that hope and wisdom. It’s odd and impossibly human how something so incredibly real can come from all of our dreams when they’re put together. And while I know that his passing isn’t the loss of that message of hope by any means… But I’d be lying if I said it didn’t feel that way. It really does feel like it’s our duty to ourselves to continue the hope that we know and feel, even if, right now, it feels a million miles away and fading. Sir Patrick Stewart didn’t die. He’s become more powerful than any of us can possibly imagine.

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