2026-07-23 07:26 UTC
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@eruonna@lgbtqia.space 2026-07-23 12:40
@Tattie@eldritch.cafe my wife, natal clit haver, seems to want an answer between fairly noticeable and very obvious, fwiw
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@damonology@lgbtqia.space 2026-07-23 15:52
@Tattie@eldritch.cafe I mean, vaginas vary so much in their anatomy that I think it kinda is what it is. Some people have larger clitoruses for example. Some people are menopausal and that can make them more sensitive. For example, when I was pre T I didn't really notice my vagina existing at all and that's not a dysphoria thing because I'm not really dysphoric about my vagina. Post T? I cannot describe to you the level of difference. My vag has been resuscitated and given new life. Given the combination of anatomy, hormones, age, childbirth status and possible surgeries as well as the myriad of cognitive/emotional variables that contribute to someone noticing or not noticing their clitorus in any given moment, this question is actually substantially broader, subjective and variable than it appears.
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@Cai@gamepad.club 2026-07-23 09:59
@Tattie@eldritch.cafe I'm putting a couple of cents here, I hope you don't mind! My friends and I (all natal clitoris-havers) all used "ladyboner," growing up to reference female arousal, not just the hardening of the clitoris. The sensation of heat centralizing, wetness forming and moving, sensation spiking, etc., were all extremely noticeable, sometimes to the point of discomfort. But the sensation didn't focus on the clit hardening - it was just one of many things happening.