2026-09-15 07:22 UTC
one thing i hate about the german language is the thing with the word for friend: freund_in.
it's also the word for (romantic) partner (like boyfriend/girlfriend in english). but unlike in english, "freund"/"freundin" doesn't come with a prefix to denote you're referring to your partner.
this leads german speakers to do weird word acrobatics to introduce someone as their friend, because "das ist mein freund" can be understood as "this is my boyfriend"!
"das ist ein guter freund" ("this is a good friend")"das ist ein freund von mir" ("this is a friend of mine")"das ist meine beste freundin" ("this is my best friend")carefully removing the possessive pronoun "mein" ("my") and replacing it with a way less personal "ein" ("a"). idk, this just sucks
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@sk@catcatnya.com 2026-09-15 07:23
and if you wanted a gender-neutral way to say "this is my friend", you might need to say "das ist ein_e freund_in von mir" or "das ist eine befreundete person" something. but: some people use english terms in place of german terms. so, "das ist mein friend" might just be the solution to all of our problems