I am currently in an interesting(and somewhat unexpected, I might add) chapter of my gender journey, having worked out that Bigender is a term that seems to sit really well with me and that I am, in fact, both trans man *and* cis woman. It's all very new and it's a vulnerable but exciting place to be to discover this over the past day, and there is a definite sense of relief too. I'm deeply proud to be a trans man. I'm equally proud(and excited) to discover that I'm also a woman. Also, to be clear, this is not a system-mate/alter as happens within my plurality/DID(that's part of the reason it took some time to figure out, because I had to unravel some plural stuff first😉)
Of course, I do not have all the answers, or claim to speak for anyone but myself and my experiences(everyone's journey is different), but here's your reminder that it's okay to discover more about yourself. It's okay if labels shift(or shift back, or sideways). It's okay to try things out, and work out what fits you best, and when that stops resonating, to find things that work better. It's *you* gender, your journey, your life. You get to decide. As long as it makes sense to you and adds value and peace and joy to your life, go for it🥰
#gender #gendereuphoria #lgbtqia #genderjoy #genderjourney #bigenderpride
