velma
velma@reddthat.com
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I really enjoy the Gottman Institute for relationship based advice.
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“Fuck you you fucking whore. Fuck you”. A text I received from a colleague I was told was “too valuable to reprimand". I’m so tired of sitting through “Women in tech” panels where women are told what they can do to survive in the tech industry. The ones where women are coached on confidence, on negotiating, on resilience, on not shrinking. The implicit message: the problem is fixable if women just try harder. This talk isn’t that. This will be an uncomfortable account of what men ac...
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What is your favorite love song?