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  Some people default to kindness. I used to believe it was most people, but I’m starting to feel differently. Maybe like 20% default to being kind? 🤷 What do you think? #AskFedi

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  “It’s a man thing” “Oh women are just like that” “Real men do X” Ughhhh! I’m not sure if it’s my non-binariness or what but phrases like the above that are all “oh that makes sense. No further questions. Case closed” are some bullshit. People do people things. 🫠 The world is more complex and beautiful than we can imagine and binaries are lazy and dishonest to being alive.

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  It’s so tempting to post anti-AI rants on LinkedIn. That place is a wasteland.

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  Smurf high rise. #mushrooms #fungi

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  “I’m not rude, I’m just saying what everyone else is thinking.” - a T-shirt worn by someone I saw while in town today. I do not like this shirt, but I can’t put my finger on the exact word as to why. It feels like a pretty big flag that says “don’t engage with this person” What do you think?

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  “I’ve been told I’m too hard on myself. “ #AskFedi

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  I’ve got myself with too much #Tech content in my feed. At the same time, many of the non-tech people I follow have left the fediverse …. And when I post or see non-tech content, it gets a lot less engagement so it feels like a dead end to engage myself Which continues the cycle and less and less non-tech content is present. *sigh*

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  You see a bee struggling in a pool of water. Do you help it? #AskFedi

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  No I won’t scan my face to log in No I won’t engage with your AI generated content. No I am not interested in making my life more online for the ease of surveillance companies and payment processors. No I don’t care if I “miss out”.

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  RE: https://mstdn.social/@lifewithtrees/116974889332752064 I’d love to hear from some non LGBTQ folks on this too. Y’all see through it right?

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  Who wants to bring back Roman numerals? I for one

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  Do you sleep with “dinosaur hands”? See reply for photo #AskFedi

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  I’ve never been in a heterosexual relationship but regardless hearing jokes on the radio about men who wish their wives would go away (in a myriad of ways) is confusing and sad. #askfedi

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  “I have a pair of hands, and they’re not just built for typing.” - Rowan Mangan ✊ 🪏 🤜🤛 #Tech #Gardening #Humanity

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  I have some sort of idea about the purpose of my life. #AskFedi

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  May the energy of spring live within you 🥰 #Bloomscrolling #Flowers

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  3 days without looking at Reddit. 🥳 Annnnnnd now im posting here more lol 🤷😆

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  Everything is a story in a play. We are characters in costumes playing a role.

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  No matter what I’m doing I take too long. Or too short Or it’s just right and then it sets a standard as if I know what I’m doing. Fellow ADHDers - How do you deal with your time blindness? @actuallyadhd #adhd #AuDHD #adhd

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  I’m unpacking the WHY I have such resistance to using timers and schedules to manage my ADHD outside of work. It’s part ego, part internalized ableism and part anxiety triggering In short: a part of me feels I have less value for needing to use a tool at all, and the tool itself makes me feel anxious that I’ll still mess up so I self sabotage and resist or don’t even try and then “fail” again gah!😖 Does this resonate with others? Cc @actuallyadhd #adhd #audhd

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  Another change in my thinking that’s been helpful for me : If I am doing something that doesn’t go as expected, my automatic reaction is to call myself “stupid” When this happens now - and I catch it - I change it to “silly” to extend myself compassion. Silly is no big deal after all! 😊😉 Making this change has meant “stupid” is showing up less and less and silly more and more. I feel better in those moments than I used to feel 🥰 #mentalhealth #SelfCompassion #exercise

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  Nothings quite as good as being kind to a stranger.

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  It’s so weird seeing American folks worried about the drop in Canadian tourism and saying it’s due to Canadians having “hard feelings” and wondering why we can’t just put them aside. It’s gaslighting and yet another reason not to go. Yeesh. 🙄