@hacks4pancakes@infosec.exchange French here, raised by left-handed parents My sister and I could never bring ourselves to use the knife the way we were supposed to; we were confused first that our parents would apparently set the table in reverse, being confused themselves, and by the entire silliness of it all So we chose one way and we stuck to it, and if anyone ever noticed, usually as soon as I sit down and feel the need to correct the position of the set in front of me, the most that happened was a curious comment, our amused response and their defeated agreement that indeed, it’s so much easier When I set a table for guests, I just make a slight effort to picture how I’d place everything for myself and I flip that