Yesterday late at night, I saw the title of this video from the "Sorry, I missed this" channel by Cate Osborn (which I like a lot): "He has ADHD. I don’t. Here’s what actually helps us talk" I watched it to find out what would help, and to see whether it would help in my relationship. What stayed with me is: "Oh, look, there are people who _want to_ be with 'us', that _want to_ make efforts. Wow!", and it feels like "a tiny light on the other side of the RSD", so to speak. #ADHD #ADHDMoment