@Siiin@pagan.plus I'm inclined to agree. It's odd because I feel no value judgment toward people who can't understand; it's just, well, you can't possibly relate to the exact type of sacrifice in question here unless you've done it. & like I said, I don't regret the sacrifice itself, but because it's so indescribable it feels hard to articulate my needs after the fact to people who haven't gone through it (regardless of whether they could) or haven't been able to preserve the memory