@TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone
2026-03-11 19:17 UTC
It's pretty validating to hear this. My partner, I love him to death, but oh my God when he tries to predict what I'm going to say and cuts me off to do so, it feels so rude. It's like why should I bother speaking if you already have decided what I'm going to say? And it's so often inaccurate.
I know it's part of the ADHD processing so I try to dismiss it, I know he doesn't mean to cut me off, but WOW is it trying.
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@justme@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-03-11 20:21
I do this quiet often with my wife, I get it right more often than not. The problem that makes it so hard for to keep still is that she makes long pauses in the middle of the sentence, like she needs to think herself what she was about to say. I know it's not nice to do but sometimes the feeling makes me prefer chewing glass.
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@FenrirIII@lemmy.world 2026-03-14 20:18
My wife always predicts the worst possible outcome of what I'm saying and starts to say how bad it is. I have to stop her without losing my temper because it's so aggravating