@kai@ajin.la for me, i’ve always done the most personal growth, introspection and self-learning after a breakup. i’m not saying breakups feel great, but they have always pushed me to ask myself the hard questions of “who am i as an individual? am i capable of certain things alone?” etc etc so, if i were to thank someone for my personal growth, it’d be my exes who gave it a shot with previous iterations of me, who probably wasn’t quite there yet :)