Dear men: when men objectify others, it’s a reflection of how little they value themselves. Please remind them that they, too, have value, their feelings matter, and patriarchy continues to violate them by commanding that they bury their own feelings. That being kind to other people, and not treating others as sex objects, will help put them on a terrifying and exhilarating quest to free themselves and others from the clutches of the vilest evils. It’s real life hero stuff.