I swear some women are as clueless about men as men are about women. I’m sure huge amount of this is because schools insist that sexed is gender separated. Why is wearing glasses and pyjamas supposed to be a turn-off? You know when women go on about how they have to have a different dress for every party, it is literally only women the care. Men aren’t going to even notice if you’re wearing the same thing two dates in a row. The catty comments come from other women. As a man I don’t have nice clothes, I just have clothes. If we’re going on a date I’m just going to be wearing clothes, I don’t have special items that I only wear on a date so I am really not going to mind if you don’t either.