@Crystal_Fish_Caves@mstdn.party My two rules for life for many years now are: 1) People are stupid. 2) People are assholes. (Present company excluded, of course.) So it's not that all _men_ you meet are assholes, it's that most of the _people_ you meet are assholes. And the closer you get to people (like, trying to date them, e.g.) the more likely you are to notice that they're assholes.