@brumph I actually agree it's her fault, and quite a lot of not autistic husbands would be just as indifferent as you. I'd say 'you choose' sooner, and walk to the other end of the store. It's good to add 'just call me when you've decided, so I can admire you wisdom and taste'. The last bit is said ironically, but fulfilled with all seriousness :) In our case we often don't bother asking even. I learned to just randomly pick one in my 20s, and he once realised that and asked, and I confirmed.