2026-08-01 22:58 UTC
@irrlicht@social.lithio.fr of course. This post is specifically about the judgement/assumption about Doms, based on my own experience as a Dom(as part of being a switch), and of having someone judge not only me but all Doms because of their own fears, and lack of understanding, rather than educate themselves. It's certainly true that some subs can be harmful, toxic, abusive etc too.
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@irrlicht@social.lithio.fr 2026-08-01 23:11
@aces_funhouse@kinkycats.org No doubt. I was mentioning because in my mind, this is part of a bigger conversation regarding power and harm reduction in BDSM. Not pretending to teach you anything just thaught about it and felt like sharing