@petrillic @CottonCandyandRazorblades @alice That can be turned around for anyone who needs to hear it: Whoever you are, you don't owe anyone masculinity or femininity. I saw a chap in the supermarket today. I stopped to compliment him on his top — that's something that straight men never, never do. It was a simple sweatshirt with three words written on it: You are enough.