@Tattie@eldritch.cafe I... am not sure how I would react if my wife or say my sister (I have no kids) would say that to me. I would probably be quite surprised but I think it would come out as a long pause and then a motion of some sort for them to continue. "trying to talk someone out of it" is weird on top of being offensive. Especially for someone that probably have had to have the same kind of talk with a loved one at some point. (Something I've never had to do for obvious reasons and Im aware of that).