@jilleduffy@mastodon.social Hi! Fabulous essay, and I love many of the follow up comments you’ve been making in the thread below. Do you mind if I link to this toot and to the essay if I do a follow up to this blog post of mine? https://piratesobg.wordpress.com/2026/06/07/on-why-i-despise-the-a-cup-angst-trope/ I think you’ve made a convincing, woman led, argument to make me change my mind on the reverse trope (I was pretty harsh about that, but I’m trying to listen).