@ActuallyAubrey@void.lgbt not to try to "solve" if you just wanted to vent, but is there space in the cupboard for like, 2 additional plates? More to get through before dishes *must* be done, nobody's asking anything of anyone else, nobody has to change, and if it was ~2 plates per-person before you moved in, it could be easy to say you didn't want to leave them feeling tight on plates <3