@grober_Unfug@discuss.tchncs.de
2026-10-29 07:04 UTC
“Having your life together” is the state you’re supposed to be in after the “when I grow up”-phase is completed, a phase in which you are expected to master the art of “adulting”.
You always know what to do, never clueless and of course well prepared for whatever life throws your way.
So basically a lot of bullshit, something people tell you to achieve because they are tired of hearing about your struggles.
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@Drusas@fedia.io 2026-10-29 21:34
Hard disagree. Everyone will always experience moments of cluelessness and having your life together doesn't mean that you need to know and be capable of everything. It means you are generally stable (not about to become homeless or have a psychiatrist crisis, for example) and have been for a while. That's really about it.