@alicemcalicepants@ohai.social Oh, yes! And a person is soooo ungrateful blah, blah, blah, if they don't appreciate that someone stepped in to 'help' (and ruined the entire situation). Apparently, sometimes, it's not possible that a person might know what they want and it might not be the way someone else may want it. Ask before 'helping' You've hit on one of my pet peeves. 😆 I could go on about this for days.