@Violettethegreat@cyberpunk.lol
2026-08-09 10:15 UTC
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@DavidBruchmann@mastodon.world 2026-08-09 11:10
@Violettethegreat@cyberpunk.lol for a slow start ๐
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@gwenthefops@transfem.social 2026-08-09 10:40
@Violettethegreat@cyberpunk.lol The 2 ways in which I became sluttier IRL are: meeting internet cuties to fuck, and having sex with pre-existing friends. I can't help with anything else, but I'm pretty sure I'd be considered a slut already at this point For the former, if you live somewhere that has events that folks you know from fedi are going, you can flirt with the ones that go (and I started extremely upfront with most of them, DMing like "hey, is it ok if I flirt" and feeling out (or explicitly asking) boundaries as we go) and eventually float the idea of meeting in said event. For IRL preexisting connections, I just kinda slung some flirts at friends who I knew were single* and eventually, again very directly, said "hey, d'ya wanna fuck?" Generally my experience has been that if they're receptive to flirts, they're recceptive to the question (even if the answer is no). * one of them I didn't mean to flirt with and they had a partner at the time, but it turns out both of our default modes of chatting is flirting and one thing leads to another and we now are partners โ:neofox_blep:โ
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@pinkberet@transfem.social 2026-08-09 10:44
@Violettethegreat@cyberpunk.lol I'm interested for the same reasons as you. Lol, I feel so hot too. And when I hang out in queer places, I suspect the vibes I give is "I love hanging out โ:neocat_uwu:โ you are all so cute!" whereas in my brain, I'm like "They are so cute omg โ:neocat_bottom:โ"