@Quasit@social.vivaldi.net @ahimsa_pdx@disabled.social Thing is when we say it in a public setting or online we don't know who's listening or reading along. And even in a private setting - you don't know everything about the other person. I don't mind Trump being all in his feelings (as far as that's possible), he deserves absolute hell, but to me it's about the collateral damage. When you focus an insult on something he chooses to do it's uniquely him. In my mind that makes it a different story.