2026-07-21 14:05 UTC
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@tiefling@bardicperspiration.club 2026-07-22 13:17
@ayke@blahaj.social hn. It depends? Like most ppl I am friends with will never be romantic / sex interests, I just don't think of them that way. Most of the rest are "I dunno but it could happen" bc there is at least a little bit of attraction. Then, there are the SUPER rare ppl who I actually just want to do things with. So scale but separate too? Difficulty / wrench: I'm also super fking demi.
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@ayke@blahaj.social 2026-07-24 14:12
Thanks all! This poll got... slightly more popular than expected. Super interesting to see all the responses! For me it's some sort of scale. I do like cuddles, and I like kissing (depending on the person of course). I don't really get traditional platonic friendships, though of course I will respect if people want to stay entirely platonic. Maybe that's a me problem. I just like long hugs to feel comfortable with people.
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@Lunaphied@provably.online 2026-07-21 14:07
@ayke@blahaj.social what's the difference between 1 and 3?
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@maya@catgirl.global 2026-07-21 16:55
@ayke@blahaj.social there's a threshold in our opinion, but there is definitely a middle area for us where we're friends but we would have sex or kiss or etc. it depends on who, and it is very much vibes based it seems - posted by maya