@sammy@cherrykitten.gay @RosethornRanger@spore.social Apologies for my ignorance. As a cis woman, I thought the point was that I don't know what gender they were assigned at birth and shouldn't be concerned about it unless they choose to tell me for whatever reason. They are non-binary, and that should be enough. I mean, I don't care what's in other people's pants unless I'm about to get into them - and since I'm bi, I really care more about the person than the naughty bits. I'm confused, and distressed, this is a thing.