@Crystal_Fish_Caves@mstdn.party more likely the way you meet men selects the kind of men you meet. I don't say assholes because that's ambiguous and subjective, but of course it might be the correct label. I just don't like labelling so I'll assume, not men you like to be with. We're all assholes in some respect, not just men but I can only speak for myself as a man. But I have a woman who loves me regardless, and we each think the other is wonderful. And sometimes an asshole :rofl: but we understand.