My wife would try that on me while we were dating. Naming guys that she was going to "ask out"... at one point, she actually said "You don't get jealous, do you?" I forget how I'd framed the convo, but it was something along the lines of; if she was going to cheat, I'd rather know about it openly, so I could end it. There's no point in getting jealous, as a woman is either a cheater, or she's not. Finding out yes or no is a positive either way, as I'd just walk away if she was looking at other men, and if she wasn't, then I'd know she was actually quality rather than just more gutter-trash. Something like that. She was always wound up and confused, when we were dating. I think she was accustomed to men chasing her (beautiful), and couldn't ever figure out why I'd never chase. I have Le Chateau to thank for that. Never chase.