2026-08-04 14:49 UTC
@Catwoman69y2k@meow.social most of the time when I see somebody use that phrase, it's also done in bad faith. People seem to most often say it's easier to ask forgiveness than permission because they know they're going to do something that is going to be unpopular or unwanted.
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@Catwoman69y2k@meow.social 2026-08-04 14:57
@xoagray@tiggi.es 100%. The amount of times I see it being justified in bad faith, is exactly what keeps me asking permission or communicating my desire first before doing. I want to leave room for the other person to give me feedback... or just tell me " Id rather you didnt". If they have a concern, my ask is what opens up that line of dialogue. Gives them room to gove me insight and perspective.