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@velma@sh.itjust.works

2026-10-07 18:15 UTC

I’m sick and tired of men telling me that rape culture doesn’t exist, that rape victims should have done something different, they should have worn something different, they should have not gone out alone, I’m fucking sick of all of it. We have a problem with misogyny and rape in this country. It doesn’t exist in a vacuum on its own. Trump is merely a symptom of the rot.

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  • @GreyEyedGhost@piefed.ca 2026-10-08 02:18

    I’m not excusing rapists’ shitty behavior, but, as you said, this is far more prevalent than many of us would like. Not accepting that fact and taking steps to reduce the risk is a poor choice. I don’t turn my back on a dog I don’t know, and a woman driving around by herself and getting out of her car in the middle of the night in unpopulated areas is leaving herself at risk as a target of opportunity or even a planned attack. Again, not saying this is okay or the way things should be, but is a realistic view of the world we live in. The talk about clothes or behavior, though (beyond that which exposes you to risk), is completely beside the point. Predators will attack targets. Stop the predators. Don’t be an easy target. Both of those should be done, but only one can reasonably be done on an individual basis. And no, none of that makes this in any way her fault. That rests squarely on her attackers.

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  • @Mulligrubs@lemmy.world 2026-10-07 18:49

    I think it’s much more prevalent than people want to admit. Otherwise, spontaneous gang rapes wouldn’t occur with such frequency. Why are there always so many men that are up for it randomly? What are the odds, yeah? Seriously, that wouldn’t be possible if it was a rarity. They’ll rape animals and men, too, because they’re rapists. Women and children are smaller, so they are preyed on much more, but if all women disappeared tomorrow, they’d still rape whomever/whatever else they could. Sure, this could be a political ploy in this case, I know nothing. But the reason such a ploy is believable is because it’s so common.

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