@Crystal_Fish_Caves@mstdn.party I really think that men tend to be arseholes... Maybe not all men, or even "all men I meet" but the thing I've seen is there's two distinctive types. The ones that are just simple arseholes... Like they're just hey, here I am, I'm an arsehole... Then the really far worse one, "Hey I wasn't being an arsehole, and I'm stopping right now, why would you think I'm an arsehole anyway?" Ie. they insist they're not an arsehole, while doing exactly the arseholery that they are being asked to stop.