Post by @ki4jgt@feddit.org

2026-10-20 21:01 UTC

How would you schedule a post to Facebook after your death? For decades, I was my family’s whipping boy, caretaker, therapist, and problem solver. I know stories that could get people jailed for life, lose them their careers, and ruin their reputation. All in a little 2,000 person community, that I don’t think much of either. My heart’s getting weak from all the bullshit.that’s happened to me over the years, and I would love for some tea to be spilled the birthday after my death. I know where all the community bodies are buried – thanks to sad people wanting to spill everything they know to quiet people. Should I do it? How would you go about it, seeing as Facebook doesn’t have scheduled posts for individual accounts? Stories include: rape, sexual assault, intense bullying, racism, homophobia, potential unsolved police cases, I could go on. All tea spilled to me by other people.

Replies (5)

@echo@lemmy.today 2026-10-20 21:02

I wouldn’t. I don’t use Facebook now, so why would I post anything to it upon my death?

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@TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 2026-10-20 21:32

Idk about an API to post on Facebook specifically, but you could look into a dead man’s switch to schedule some sort of script to be triggeref after you die, IG you can figure out a script to post a post

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@Fizz@lemmy.nz 2026-10-20 22:01

I probably wouldnt do that. It seems wrong to die then spill everyone’s secrets. If they are truely bad then action them now. But i dont know how.bad these people are.

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@MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 2026-10-20 23:47

Write it all down and put it in your will. Heck, you could pay a lawyer to post it for you too.

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@Sackett@thelemmy.club 2026-10-21 02:30

If you have evidence of rape or unsolved major crimes you should report that to the police. Otherwise, it’s up to you. Personally, I wouldn’t. You would be dead, so you don’t get to feel like you “won”. And chances are your memory will be tarnished far more than the people you accuse, especially if they are still alive to defend themselves.

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