@Catriona@tech.lgbt exactly. They want to be transphobic and yell foul when they're called transphobic. Treating trans women like we're not women is transphobia. Period. If you're not attracted to someone, fine. If you're not comfortable with certain genitals, fine. I'm not questioning any of that. And I don't wanna date a transphobe. So I wouldn't date one of them anyway. But claiming it's not transphobic to treat trans women like we're not women is just absurd. And I'm tired of catering to cis nonsense like that.