2026-09-19 18:09 UTC
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@Axolotl1@gaygeek.social 2026-09-19 19:42
@Amyuhn@transfem.social shit takes time. You can never truly know how much you'll heal, just that it may or may not be longer than expected. Shit it might even get worse. The human brain is unpredictable, so there's never any guarantee. It's something I had to teach myself. You're currently trending more towards healing so that's something. That scar will never fully heal, but it has healed. Hang in there. 👋
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@ActuallyAubrey@void.lgbt 2026-09-19 18:50
@Amyuhn@transfem.social trauma is like a big rock you have to carry. It starts like a huge heavy boulder, its weight unbearable, you can barely stand. Slowly it will start to get smaller and easier to carry, but it will never go away. But someday, it will be just a small pebble in your pocket, easy to carry most days, but sometimes it will sit in your pocket weird and make you feel a tiny bit of pain. You have come so so far in the past year, my love, I am always so proud of how much you've grown and survived and progressed. The weight of this trauma is still a lot to carry for you, but it's easier than it was, and I know that next year, you'll look back on now I see that it's become even easier in the year since. Progress is progress, growth is growth, even if it is slower than you expected. But one thing will never change: I will always be here by your side to help you carry the weight of your trauma and problems, no matter what. I will always be so incredibly proud of you, my darling.