@Melezioh@mstdn.games I don't think we get to police how women harmed by men - individuals and collectively - get to talk about it. Saying 'men suck' in a patriarchy does no significant harm. If people want to drink from their male tears mugs, let them. It's a response to oppression, a way to cope. If you don't suck then it ain't about you, keep not sucking. Your list is a good one. But it's situation dependent and yeah, I don't fancy having people tell us what we can't say about the harms a misogynistic society does. (also who says "testosterone is evil"?? That's... Weird, given cis women have it too among other reasons)