@girlonthenet@mastodon.social much more a reflection on them then you. i knew a guy in the service like this. he'd just ask every woman he met out. his justification? out of 100, 3 or 4 would say yes. did it matter to him who said yes? apparently not. were all 100 interchangeable for him? apparently so. that shows a remarkably poor self image for him, that he didn't think he deserved or would get someone special. or a stunningly poor idea of women. or both.